Dear Parents,
Congratulations on the birth of your child.
Thank you for approaching the Church for Baptism. We are very glad to welcome you and your family as you begin this journey.
Baptism is not simply a family celebration or tradition. Through this sacrament, your child is given new life in Christ, freed from sin, and welcomed into the life of the Church. Baptism is the beginning of a lifelong journey of faith.
1. The First Step
The first step is simply to speak to Fr John after Mass or get in touch directly.
Preparation begins with a conversation.
There is no pressure and no complicated process. We begin by getting to know one another, speaking about Baptism, and reflecting together on the life of faith.
Some families are already deeply connected to parish life. Others may be returning to church after many years away. Some may feel unsure where to begin.
That is completely alright.
Our parish tries to accompany families patiently and personally as faith grows.
2. How Preparation Works
Preparation is individualised and conversational rather than classroom-based.
Usually this includes:
- an initial conversation with Fr John
- three simple preparation sessions
- guidance for parents and godparents
- practical help for prayer and Catholic family life
The sessions are informal and adapted pastorally to each family.
They are not tests or school-style classes. They are opportunities to reflect together upon the gift of Baptism and the promises that will be made.
3. The Preparation Sessions
What Baptism Is
Why the Church baptises, what grace Baptism gives, and what it means to become a child of God and a member of the Church.
The Rite of Baptism
The meaning of the words, promises, oils, water, candle, and white garment used during the celebration.
Living Baptism Daily
How faith grows through prayer, Sunday Mass, the sacraments, and Christian family life.
Families are encouraged to ask questions freely and take time to grow in confidence and understanding.
4. Godparents
Godparents are chosen not simply for the day of Baptism, but for a lifelong role of prayer, encouragement, and Christian example.
A godparent should:
- be a practising Catholic
- be confirmed and have received First Holy Communion
- be at least 16 years old
- live in a way consistent with the Catholic faith
- be willing to help support the child in growing as a Catholic
Where possible, godparents are encouraged to take part in the preparation conversations alongside the family.
5. Preparing for the Day of Baptism
Baptisms are normally celebrated during Sunday Mass or at another suitable time by arrangement.
For the day itself you will usually need:
- a white garment for your child (or one can be provided)
- a baptismal candle
- readiness to make the baptismal promises sincerely and prayerfully
A simple guide to the rite and responses will also be provided.
6. After Baptism
Baptism is the beginning, not the end.
Parents and godparents promise to help the child grow in faith through:
- prayer at home
- Sunday Mass
- the sacraments
- Christian example
- life within the Church
Our parish wants to continue supporting families long after the day of Baptism itself.
No family is expected to walk this journey alone.
7. Next Step
If you would like to begin preparing for Baptism, please speak to Fr John after Mass or get in touch directly.
Even if you have been away from the Church for some time, you are warmly welcome.
We look forward to walking with you as you prepare for your child’s Baptism.
With prayers and blessings,
Fr John Owens
Parish Priest
St Mary’s | St John Bosco | St Edward’s
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